Oh Women against feminism, you.
Look, I’m not going to talk about rape culture all that much, just because I’m just not educated enough about it to do so.
But this appeared on my facebook feed today, and I’m appalled.
Oh geez I haven’t seen an important argument derailed by tone policing that badly since I stopped posting at wrong planet, but that’s beside the point.
Threatening to slash the OP’s throat definitely falls in the territory of overreaction but my word, what a problematic post.
The problem is this: the OP is trying to argue against the existence of rape culture by condoning unwanted sexual advances by men as normal ‘male heterosexuality.’
Feeling all bent out of shape because you can’t walk down the fucking street without unwanted sexual harassment? Well toughen up princess, this is just straight men expressing themselves sexually. STAHP repressing poor misunderstood menz lyk OMG!!!!!!
So we’re saying that unwanted sexual attention is something that feminists need to get over because, well, it’s just the way men are. Men are born sexual harrasers.
Women against feminism thinks that it is the nature of men to harass women. It’s just male heterosexuality!!!!! Reducing you to an object of sexual pleasure is just, lyk, finding you attractive!!!!
And then they have the bloody cheek to turn around and accuse feminists of hating men.
The men in your life deserve better than to be reduced to out of control sex maniacs. Even if you don’t consider yourself a feminist, even if you don’t believe in rape culture, how can you not be disturbed that?
More importantly, we as women deserve better than to be told that submitting to unwanted stares, touches, and words is necessary to accommodate male sexuality.
They keep looking. They keep touching. They keep harassing. Why? Because people condone it. Because they have the power to do so and that power continues to be reaffirmed.